What Still Serves Us

July 08, 20261 min read

What Still Serves Us

Looking back, I’m beginning to realise that not all of the ways I lead were learned in leadership.

Some were learned long before I ever led a team. Most of them I didn’t recognise at the time.

They only became clear much later.

Growing up, I learned to read the room.

To adapt to the environment around me.

To carry responsibility.

Later, I learned to persevere.

To keep going.

To make things work.

Those instincts served me well for a long time.

In fact, they became some of my greatest strengths.

But what serves us well in one season doesn’t always serve us in the next.

We rarely notice when a conscious choice quietly becomes our instinctive response.

I’ve noticed that pattern in leadership, including my own.

The question isn’t whether these instincts are good.

The question is whether they’re still the wisest response.

Because every season asks something different of us.

And perhaps growth is as much about recognising old patterns as it is about learning new ones.

So here’s the question I’ve been carrying lately.

What parts of the way I lead were learned because they were necessary then—but may not be the wisest response now?

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